Life sometimes seems to have fun twisting our lives, right? Up and down situations come to teach us. It's either we accept to learn or we don't want yet that's why some end up being in the same complicated state in life.

The choices are depends on how we wisely choose. Who are we to blame our life on others? You are living yours and it's your fault if you choose somebody to dictate your life. Still, who am I to say that? Yes,I might be wrong. Sometimes the decision to have a better life isn't always in our hands. The power and kind of life we dream of might need more steps before reaching it. The level of hardship you have to pass through is no joke compare to someone who's lucky enough to have an easy path. So what? You are you and your life is precious like theirs. The method may not be the same, but determined heart is stronger than any beliefs.

Eagerness can motivate someone.
Inspiration can change someone.
Your dream can be the key one.

Having goals can make you do better. No, it can push you to give your best. Your interest, your passion, your skills is all yours. No one can ever steal it. Don't hesitate and have courage to take the first step, who knows, it might lead you to have a good life.

You are hard working.
Dedicated to what you are doing.
One day, all your sacrifices will turn back at you in good terms.

Anything should not be about expectation.
Every little is worth something. We might not see the value of insignificant things, maybe not now.
There's too much to explore about life. So many things we have not discovered yet on our own.

What you have to do is focus on your dreams, not being a self-centered. Do what makes you happy. Stick with people who brings you joy. Have a positive mind. Have an awesome life.

Do not live your life with regrets  because of anyone, at the end, you cannot blame them. Everyone has circumstances in life. Learn to find a solution than worrying and fearing the day to come. Count your blessings instead. You are receiving gifts each day to be grateful enough. You are breathing, you just have to manage well your own life.

Another thing, our age can't define the worth of our lives. It has to be us to see what our worth is. You! Yes, I mean you. You are priceless, unbelievably great, you just have to believe what you can be.  Nothing is impossible! With God you can be whatever you dream to be. Have courage and faith, in yourself and of course with the Almighty Father.

I'm not sure about everything, nor something at times. What I know is that I myself wanted to live my life with no regrets. Who else doesn't like, right? I guess everybody does. As we grow, we meet new people. Some just pass through and some stay.

Friendship - relation between friends

We like to have someone on our side. Someone who cheers up for us when we are down. Person we can open up when we are upset and stress. Someone to tap our back when everything seems so wrong. Not a partner, but someone who loves us like our family. Admit it guys, there is some topic you cannot tell your family. Like when you have a relationship issues, it's hard to tell your family how hard things are for you.

We want the funniest thing for us to be emotionally healthy. Friend is not required in one's life, but you have it and your good life becomes a better one. It's nice to add spice in food for it to have a twist, it's indeed best to find true friends who makes our life gleeful. Friends cannot get through money, they are treasures to keep forever.

"Friends are like family not through blood but through heart."

How about you?
What is a friend for you?
How do you consider someone to call as your friend?

friends become our chosen family

Here's a fact:
- Regardless the age, gender and status in life: it can be someone's friend
- Even different religion and beliefs: those people can be friends
- No position or state in life can tell who your friends are.
- Physical appearance and style is not a basis of choosing a true friend

Same interest, people with the same interest like yours can be easily your friend. It is because you can both enjoy doing things you want. Having someone with the same trip can give you happiness.

Best time

You never need to pretend in front of your friends for them to like you. All your flaws are accepted. Nothing is weird as both of you are not clueless how strange each other is. You both do craziness over things and you still believe it's funny.

Someone who genuinely cares for you, friend is someone who is concerned about you. Friend should be mutual. In case it's not, either they need you or they're just using you. Friend should have affection towards each other. It should be real.

In your random emotion, they once witness you for sure. In most of special events in your life other than your family, you are with your friends on the way.

We are comfortable with our friends. Actually, we are spending most of our time with them.
They lessen negative vibes and increase positive thoughts for us. They support and give help when we need and they are proud when we do more or even little achievements.

Be wise in living. You have a friend, you're not alone.
Live a happy life. Be with people who helps you grow as a person.

"Friends... they cherish one another's hopes. They are kind to one another's dream" -Henry David Thoreau
"A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself" -Jim Morrison

I think it is true that we girls do get disappointed because of things that we just created in our mind. Why? Simply because I did the same in a way. I'm not saying it relates to all but I will assume I am right. I know that you got hurt once because of your least expectation from someone you value the most. Absurd, right? You gave all the signs to meet your expectation yet that person is playing pretty numb. Every single action was counted, but it never comes when you're waiting desperately.

We can never deny and lie in our own feelings. Let's admit it girls that our bliss sometimes hide in our mind because we don't like men to see us so fluttered of what effort they did. We secretly treasure the moment in our heart. Imagination is working too much about boundless things and your feelings are growing enormously to the point you want to feel it habitually.

Honestly, wanting someone with consistency of their feelings is what we are looking for. Does that someone exist? Rare maybe, but getting the real point here is that we just want to feel our significance in times we start questioning the love we are receiving. We keep ourselves expecting and getting saddened at the end. We doubt the relationship not noticing that it weakens the trust.

We're hoping for progress, we stay and getting confused. Self-explanation is not always getting things the way we see it.  Understanding should come first to turn everything fine.

We like pretty works of effort. We want surprising things to happen for real. We want to be loved and always be. Thinking of yourself that you have a hollowness in your heart, you keep asking questions. You will need an answer, response that will satisfy and will give you peace of mind. The key here is acceptance.

Love what you hate and ignore things which does not matter. Rather than nagging the person you love, show your warmth. Instead of blaming, embrace someone's imperfections. Do not neglect the person, hug tightly. Holding someone's hand will make the situation better and teach you to find what is lost. You will then recognize that everything is dreamily perfect in the way you not seen it before.

Sunrise reminds us that after darkness, there's always a light!

I can believe without seeing! I know for sure that here in my heart I can find Him. God almighty created everything. Failure and problems come and go just like every day of our daily lives. Just like day and night. My faith helps me to survive anything. Maybe it's not consistent, but this is called life, it's up and down. We keep on rolling to make our lives more satisfying.

No one will ever say that life is easier as how we think we can live it in such fantasy life we like to be in. We need to work hard as much as we can. To be able to get the things who required us to get, we use money to survive in the materialistic world of our minds.

Realistically, I  believe like other does that our faith lead us in the right path. We do actions depending on how we foresee things. We are always guided and it's our choice to be with Him. Jesus saves us to all our sins. Brother is too nice to his siblings. We do things against righteousness, but we still are forgiven every time we make mistakes. He saved and will save us.

My faith keeps me to be strong! It makes heavy things to be light for me to hold it. To Him I pray for myself and for my beloved ones. I ask him to guide us, but I know it's already given to ask for because even before I ask I already feel it in many ways. Even times come for me to give up, not even once God will give up for me. I'm always grateful to see pretty creatures around me. Surrounding and people that make me wonder and amaze.

When I am thinking about plans for myself, the idea follows that it's good to take God's will and let Him help me to decide for what should be the best plan.

Recently, I decided to jog in weekends, while looking up at the wide sky while running I've realized how lucky I am. I should not live my life thinking how great other life is. It is good to dream a good life but thinking about less fortunate people, I think of God's gift every morning when I wake up. Watching how the sun rises from far, it seems like a good day to be happy for a lot of things.

We are blessed indeed! We received and keep on receiving, being thankful is not a hard thing to give. We must because we are truly fortunate!